An Australian sex worker has shared her thoughts on why married men pay for sex with her.
Bonnie Blue, an OnlyFans content creator, adult film star, and escort, besides her notable feat of sleeping with '122 students' over '21 days,' also caters to married men as part of her clientele.
The 24-year-old, residing on the Gold Coast in Australia, has disclosed the primary reasons these men seek her services, emphasizing that she holds the wives, not the men, accountable for these encounters.
After relocating from the UK to Australia with her husband, Bonnie chose to shed her image as the 'innocent wife,' ended her marriage, and embarked on a new career in the adult entertainment industry.
She gained significant attention for her claim of sleeping with over 100 students during a Spring Break event, which led to her having to publicly defend her actions.
Bonnie has also opened up about another segment of her clientele - married men - and she has shared the top five reasons she believes these men opt to be unfaithful with her.
Bonnie Blue has opened up about why she thinks married men cheat with her (Instagram/ @bonnie_blue_xox)
They want a distraction:
Bonnie explained to News.com.au that one reason married men seek her services is for a distraction from the daily grind. She stated, "Seeing me is a stress release, and then they can go back to their families and be a better husband and dad."
Boredom:
She also pointed out that another motivation could be boredom from being with the same partner for an extended period, indicating, "Married men might simply be bored of sleeping with the same person for so long and they want some excitement."
It's a fantasy:
Lastly, Bonnie highlighted that for some, the allure of being with a porn star fulfills a long-held fantasy, saying, "A third reason is that sleeping with a porn star is honestly such a fantasy for so many people. So sleeping with me can bring that dream to life."
Bonnie says there are five main reasons married men pay her for sex (Instagram/ @bonnie_blue_xox)
Attraction:
Bonnie candidly shared that one reason married men come to her is due to physical attraction, stating, "Another reason is that [she's] hotter than their wife. It's that simple."
Sexless marriages:
However, she identifies the 'major reason' as dissatisfaction within their marriage, particularly a lack of sexual fulfillment. Bonnie noted, "The major reason is that their wives are not pleasuring their husbands the way they want to be pleasured." She further elaborated that many men confide in her about their marriages, highlighting common issues like a lack of intimacy, not making time for each other, or failing to communicate and meet each other's needs.
Bonnie's perspective on this situation is quite direct, attributing the fault to the wives, saying, "I don’t blame husbands for booking an escort at all. I blame the wife. More women should learn how to pleasure their men, moan a little less and maybe I wouldn’t have so many visits from their husband."
As for what I think, Bonnie's comments provide insight into her experiences and the reasons she perceives for her clientele's choices. However, this perspective is inherently one-sided, focusing on the sexual aspect of marital dissatisfaction.
Relationships are complex, involving emotional, psychological, and physical components. While sexual fulfillment is important, it's just one part of a marriage. Issues like communication, mutual respect, emotional support, and shared interests play significant roles in the health of a relationship.
Blaming one partner without considering the broader context might oversimplify the multifaceted nature of marital relationships. Additionally, her comments might reflect societal expectations about sexual roles within relationships, which can vary widely among individuals and cultures.
